Hi, as a single guy i really want my next gf to have a huge ruined cunt.. how do i go about finding such a girl?

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wrstdeeppussy:

It would be so easy if every womam read like a book wouldn’t it? Thats the issue every man has no matter what his fetish is. Asking “what is her situation down there? How loose/tight is it? What does it look like?”. There is absolutely no way to know. From experience even if you date someone who has children and has previously given natural birth doesn’t warrant that she is any looser than a woman that has not given birth. Back when I was single it was very hit and miss. Some women are just naturally larger and its second nature to stretch easier. Others are just permanently gonna stay tight no matter what you do. Strange to me but in my experience skinny women seem to have looser vaginas rather than a larger woman. The only issue is that skinny women normally have smaller hip bones and can only stretch so far without serious pratice daily. Larger women have larger hips and in the long run will naturally be more accommodating just because there is more room between the hips. Best advise is find a woman you can communicate with very well and you can talk with her about your fetish of liking it large. Its an awkward conversation because 99% of the world has brainwashed women to think that you have to be as tight as possible or your a huge slut. Thats so not accurate. The vagina is meant to stretch and bounce back to finger tight. Nothing is permanent with fisting. Only if a woman has had multiple births will she loose muscle control. Find a good woman that you share a great sexual connection with and just communicate with each other.
I wish you the best of luck bud. If you need more advise Loosepussyland on tumblr is a good friend. He has great advise as well and hope he’ll chime in on this topic.

Hello anon,
I agree with Wrstdeep on all points. Even a girl with a reputation for being a super-slut might be tight as anything, as can single mothers. However, there are some general things that help…
There is a saying big/fat girl big hole, skinny/little girl all hole. It’s to do with internal organs causing the pussy to collapse in on itself - skinny girls are more likely to be cavernous.
Multiple births (more than 3 - 3 is the magic number) are not going to be as tight as they once were. The appearance will change even if that milf is a kegel machine. Age also loosens internal ligaments and muscle strength decreases and the vagina is naturally more likely to gape, feel loose or even prolapse!
Wide hips helps, but the critical part are the ‘sit bones’. Literally the bones a girl sits with - they determine the size of the boney opening - the point where a baby’s head would pass - this limits insertion size - however, there are techniques for stretching the pussy beyond and outside the boney opening to give her pussy a ‘blow-out’ meaty turning-inside-out look.

Generally I’d say focus on dating girls you find attractive anyway - communication is key, you need to feel comfortable discussing fetishes.  If she is worth keeping she will be happy to experiment with what you like. Never force anything she doesn’t want. If she’s up for it, take pussy stretching and fisting very slowly, use lots of lube, make her highly aroused, be generous and give plenty of high quality foreplay and oral - make sure she gets rewarded and always cums well. You are training her to like being stretched to the max, slowly but surely she will become an addict.
Also, if she does kegels it will slow or reverse any permanent gaping or loosesning of her cunt muscles - though some people like stretch and flexibility in which case she kegels and stretches.

Ultimately I would say as a general rule, big loose cunts are created, not born. Some girls are lucky and massively well endowed, but mostly it’s stretching - so this is a change for you to make a tight virgin into a ruined slut.

educationforwomen:

In the BDSM community subspace is a common concept. That a submissive can be pushed and encouraged into the submissive role so deeply that they experience a kind of euphoria, detachment from self, some heightened sensations, some lowered and a kind of ‘crash’ that can come afterward. I’m not sure if it’s some form of this that you see when you either fuck a whore into submission, or wind up her libido so much with edging and orgasm denial that she just becomes an animal that fucks, but I think the existence of slutspace is really undeniable.
You fuckdolls out there know what I’m talking about - the place you go when you get fucked hard enough? The place where everything else just goes away, and all there is is cock, your hole and the feeling of every conscious thought being fucked out of your pathetic heads before it can become fully formed. Worries and fear just sort of evaporate under the right pummeling until you find yourself in a peaceful, empty and wonderful place where you truly accept that this is what you and your body were meant for. The place where any real though feels out of place and all actions are guided by the need you feel in your holes.
You can get there edging as well of course, although it’s not the same. Instead there is still once chain of thought open to you - how do I get fucked so I can might be allowed to cum? This single thing will eclipse every other thought you have because it’s the only thought you’re *meant* to have. The filthy, wanton, eager cum-slut inside you is just dying to get out, suck every cock it can and show you how happy and simple life can be if you just become the easy, happy little fuckdoll you were meant to be.
Enjoy that place. Seek it out and crave it, because this is how a woman is meant to be - spread wide, limp enough to use but still holding herself the best way for to be enjoyed, mind blank except for the torrent of her orgasm breaking her mind and showing her that above all, she is simply a slut.
All women should be like this.
PS - please don’t send me messages telling me what a flawed definition of subspace this is? I know, but this post isn’t about subspace - it’s about slutspace :)

Great post Educationforwomen!I recently got sent some screechy hate-mail by a dumb angry hysterical feminist because she didn’t like the content of my blog being tinged with occasional aspects of patriarchy, viz, she accused me of ‘misogyny’, lol. I politely tried to explain this point you have made so well. Some people enjoy SubSpace. Some women enjoy SlutSpace. Its called role play. Some people get it, some people are to dumb to understand. I make clear on my blog I love women - in so many ways! But I also like to use them sexually, it’s only natural! That’s basic male sexuality. Some feminists can’t understand that not every woman is crippled by the weight of a massive chip on her shoulder. Most women enjoy being fucked, and don’t consider all heterosexual acts rape, etc… Most women actually like primal sex and like to be used and treated rough. Who wants weak feminist-style sex where the man has to go to an all female committee ask if it’s ‘OK’ to get an erection and ask for a permission slip to look at women in a sexual way. Anyway, the sooner women reconcile themselves with their slut side, the better - not just for men, but for women.

educationforwomen:

In the BDSM community subspace is a common concept. That a submissive can be pushed and encouraged into the submissive role so deeply that they experience a kind of euphoria, detachment from self, some heightened sensations, some lowered and a kind of ‘crash’ that can come afterward. I’m not sure if it’s some form of this that you see when you either fuck a whore into submission, or wind up her libido so much with edging and orgasm denial that she just becomes an animal that fucks, but I think the existence of slutspace is really undeniable.

You fuckdolls out there know what I’m talking about - the place you go when you get fucked hard enough? The place where everything else just goes away, and all there is is cock, your hole and the feeling of every conscious thought being fucked out of your pathetic heads before it can become fully formed. Worries and fear just sort of evaporate under the right pummeling until you find yourself in a peaceful, empty and wonderful place where you truly accept that this is what you and your body were meant for. The place where any real though feels out of place and all actions are guided by the need you feel in your holes.

You can get there edging as well of course, although it’s not the same. Instead there is still once chain of thought open to you - how do I get fucked so I can might be allowed to cum? This single thing will eclipse every other thought you have because it’s the only thought you’re *meant* to have. The filthy, wanton, eager cum-slut inside you is just dying to get out, suck every cock it can and show you how happy and simple life can be if you just become the easy, happy little fuckdoll you were meant to be.

Enjoy that place. Seek it out and crave it, because this is how a woman is meant to be - spread wide, limp enough to use but still holding herself the best way for to be enjoyed, mind blank except for the torrent of her orgasm breaking her mind and showing her that above all, she is simply a slut.

All women should be like this.

PS - please don’t send me messages telling me what a flawed definition of subspace this is? I know, but this post isn’t about subspace - it’s about slutspace :)

Great post Educationforwomen!

I recently got sent some screechy hate-mail by a dumb angry hysterical feminist because she didn’t like the content of my blog being tinged with occasional aspects of patriarchy, viz, she accused me of ‘misogyny’, lol. I politely tried to explain this point you have made so well. Some people enjoy SubSpace. Some women enjoy SlutSpace. Its called role play. Some people get it, some people are to dumb to understand. I make clear on my blog I love women - in so many ways! But I also like to use them sexually, it’s only natural! That’s basic male sexuality. Some feminists can’t understand that not every woman is crippled by the weight of a massive chip on her shoulder. Most women enjoy being fucked, and don’t consider all heterosexual acts rape, etc… Most women actually like primal sex and like to be used and treated rough. Who wants weak feminist-style sex where the man has to go to an all female committee ask if it’s ‘OK’ to get an erection and ask for a permission slip to look at women in a sexual way.

Anyway, the sooner women reconcile themselves with their slut side, the better - not just for men, but for women.