Hi, as a single guy i really want my next gf to have a huge ruined cunt.. how do i go about finding such a girl?
It would be so easy if every womam read like a book wouldn’t it? Thats the issue every man has no matter what his fetish is. Asking “what is her situation down there? How loose/tight is it? What does it look like?”. There is absolutely no way to know. From experience even if you date someone who has children and has previously given natural birth doesn’t warrant that she is any looser than a woman that has not given birth. Back when I was single it was very hit and miss. Some women are just naturally larger and its second nature to stretch easier. Others are just permanently gonna stay tight no matter what you do. Strange to me but in my experience skinny women seem to have looser vaginas rather than a larger woman. The only issue is that skinny women normally have smaller hip bones and can only stretch so far without serious pratice daily. Larger women have larger hips and in the long run will naturally be more accommodating just because there is more room between the hips. Best advise is find a woman you can communicate with very well and you can talk with her about your fetish of liking it large. Its an awkward conversation because 99% of the world has brainwashed women to think that you have to be as tight as possible or your a huge slut. Thats so not accurate. The vagina is meant to stretch and bounce back to finger tight. Nothing is permanent with fisting. Only if a woman has had multiple births will she loose muscle control. Find a good woman that you share a great sexual connection with and just communicate with each other.
I wish you the best of luck bud. If you need more advise Loosepussyland on tumblr is a good friend. He has great advise as well and hope he’ll chime in on this topic.
I agree with Wrstdeep on all points. Even a girl with a reputation for being a super-slut might be tight as anything, as can single mothers. However, there are some general things that help…
There is a saying big/fat girl big hole, skinny/little girl all hole. It’s to do with internal organs causing the pussy to collapse in on itself - skinny girls are more likely to be cavernous.
Multiple births (more than 3 - 3 is the magic number) are not going to be as tight as they once were. The appearance will change even if that milf is a kegel machine. Age also loosens internal ligaments and muscle strength decreases and the vagina is naturally more likely to gape, feel loose or even prolapse!
Wide hips helps, but the critical part are the ‘sit bones’. Literally the bones a girl sits with - they determine the size of the boney opening - the point where a baby’s head would pass - this limits insertion size - however, there are techniques for stretching the pussy beyond and outside the boney opening to give her pussy a ‘blow-out’ meaty turning-inside-out look.
Generally I’d say focus on dating girls you find attractive anyway - communication is key, you need to feel comfortable discussing fetishes. If she is worth keeping she will be happy to experiment with what you like. Never force anything she doesn’t want. If she’s up for it, take pussy stretching and fisting very slowly, use lots of lube, make her highly aroused, be generous and give plenty of high quality foreplay and oral - make sure she gets rewarded and always cums well. You are training her to like being stretched to the max, slowly but surely she will become an addict.
Also, if she does kegels it will slow or reverse any permanent gaping or loosesning of her cunt muscles - though some people like stretch and flexibility in which case she kegels and stretches.
Ultimately I would say as a general rule, big loose cunts are created, not born. Some girls are lucky and massively well endowed, but mostly it’s stretching - so this is a change for you to make a tight virgin into a ruined slut.